So.. We moved the date up :)

So we moved the date up..
ITs THURSDAY!! This week.

I am getting nervous and excited. We talk about everything, and yet I know in the end there is more.
I've been working on my vows, and decided to share the ones that didn't make it to the actual wedding at the end of this post. I know you will get to read them Thursday night. I haven't finished packing yet. I feel like I am forgetting something, but the most important parts are already taken care of.

I ended up getting a white tea length dress with a crinoline( its blue or red, I haven't decided yet.) My hair is just long enough for combs, which you dropped off at the florist. :)

We still haven't figured everything out related to logistics, where we are going to live etc, but I know that it will work out.

My family is excited to gain a son. I am ecstatic to have someone to lean on forever . Life is an adventure , and I will travel it with you.

Vows , not the ones for church, just for (my future spouse) and you all to read.

(J)

You have become my best friend. I never expected to find a match on E-harmony. We matched %100. I figured it was worth a date. Little did I know, I would fall in love with you!   We went to the Giant City and walked and talked for hours.

“To face the future with another, who means more than any other, is to be loved.” —The Rescuers .

I found my other.

I feel safe with you; you help me push my own limits. I promise to keep on it.

You give me hope on bad days, you listen to me vent,

You hold me when I cry( And we both know that’s often)

You have listened to me talk about life and help me look toward the future.  You challenge me in every aspect of my life(for the right reasons). I promise to support your dreams and to respect our differences.

I love you

No matter what life sends us in terms of wealth or health, I will be with you, to talk over our options, to laugh and to cry , and when needed, to make a decision. I promise, when I can, to give you the time you need to do research, and to make myself clear when there isn’t time. 

I promise:

·        to share cooking and dish duty

·        To try to kill the little spiders all by myself

·        To hug you when you need it, to give you space when its required

·        I promise to try to pretend to be excited about the Cards game around your family and friends.

·        I promise when we have “discussions” I will try not to bring up the past.

·        To look on the bright side of life when I can

·        I promise “Semper Gumby” will continue to be how we make plans, and to not get horribly upset when the plans change.

And last one  :) 

I promise to fully share my life with you,  until this earthy adventure is done.